The Prohibition Against What Needs to be Done
In most lives, the reason for not getting things done, is the internal prohibition against doing what hasn't been done -- which is invariably, to solve a problem as soon as it is recognized. Instead, the directive is to do everything and anything else -- rather than change the status quo -- even if it is not working, and that is the reason many people think everything they do, does not matter, or is futile -- rather than the reason for their productivity and success in everything they do. Usually, it is because they have been conditioned to think otherwise -- that the arbitrary and even counterproductive is the value -- and the rectifying of those problems and issues, are forbidden -- and thus they live their whole lives in these mistaken notions -- rather than engaging the straightforwardness of reality.
That is the greatest handicap of all -- that actually prevents them from engaging reality at all -- in favor of a tortured existence they will struggle against all their lives. Fortunately, there are many chances throughout their lives to break free from such thinking -- of which the most accessible is the exercise and testing of reality in our everyday lives, and everything we do.
There is no greater or more important challenge than what we have to do -- which is the simplicity of life for every life form less than human, as well. Only in humans are we overwhelmed by the complexity of thoughts competing with our actual realities -- and so people are confused by which is important and urgent, and which are the fantasies of galaxies far, far away. So we set off to slay the countless dragons -- rather than get more in touch with ourselves and our present capabilities -- which are the aches and pains of the body telling us what needs urgent attention first.
Instead, we ignore these signals and attempt to go about our normal activities and routine with these nagging injuries and dysfunctions hoping to get through them first -- and all will be forgotten and forgiven. So naturally, things just get worse -- rather than are nipped in the bud before it becomes a persistent, lingering problem that eventually dominates our consciousness and everything we do. That's how these dysfunctions always begin -- so why not turn our attention to resolving them as the most important thing we have to do at that moment?
We create an interval of time -- that removes us from that urgency of being in the moment -- as the diversion away from it. That becomes the problem-solving paradigm -- always to do something else instead -- it may not matter what. It is just an escape from solving the problems of one's life -- in entertainment, food, drink, drugs, goals, etc, and so these things become more important in our lives than dealing with any problem immediately and effectively. The escape is always the solution -- and when one returns to it, the hope is that it is gone and has resolved itself -- because that is what time has always done before.
Until one day it doesn't, and things just get worse with time, which we now call "aging," That is when all those things that worked before, no longer do -- and fall into that category now as the aging process. That is simply the message that one is running out of time -- and time can no longer be one's excuse for not getting down to it. The only question remaining is whether one has reached the end of the road -- or is another path possible? That is true for any time and stage in life -- and why some are revitalized, while many others go into an irreversible downward spiral.
That is finally the only hope -- when that person turns their life around. Some are more skilled and experienced at it than others -- because they've practiced it as their resilience in life. People are what they actually do -- especially when nobody else is watching, or telling them what to do. That's virtually everybody in "retirement." What they make of life, is their own creation -- and the summation of their existence. So it should be good -- because there is nobody else to blame but oneself.
A few will still be blaming everybody else for all their problems -- and at that point, it will never change. That is the point of no return. One has gone down that rabbit hole never to be seen again. An increasingly rare few, will redefine what the effective human lifespan is -- for every subsequent generation as the evolution of human possibilities conspicuously into their 80s, 90s, 100s -- as we are witnessing already. Not everybody gets there: it depends on individual choices they make -- in addition to a supportive, healthy cultural context.
That is the individual responsibility to make one as healthy as they can be. That is the survival of the fittest -- and the fitness. That is what is important to do -- before all diversions.