The Simplicity of Change
People not wanting to change, insist that change is very difficult -- rather than the easiest thing. Everything in life and living, is change. The thoughts, memories and illusions, are unchanging -- and that is most people's problems. If they respond to the present realities, there is never any problem -- but only responding to the exigencies of the moment, as best they can. It is when instead of responding to the present challenge, that one responds to the past, or the future, that they become detached and lost from the demands of the moment, and out of synch with it.
Then they are solving "problems" that don't exist, while neglecting the simple demands of the present -- that make things better. So even when people think they are doing everything possible to make things better, if that is not confirmed by their actual results and experience, what they think they are doing, is not making things better, but worse -- and continuing to do so. That should be obvious.
But only a rare few, will question further -- to all their assumptions, premises and prejudices -- to learn any other than to confirm what they think "right," but obviously isn't working. This self-righteousness is the same in the most knowledgeable and educated, as it is in the most ignorant, dysfunctional and despairing. They don't want to know anything but to confirm what they already "know" -- that isn't working.
The fate for those, will undoubtedly be cruel and unrelenting. They are certain that that is how life must be -- for everyone, and not that a rare few, will find a better way. That is not the privilege of only a few -- but the quest of any, who choose to live their lives that way. But it has to be chosen -- and not merely given, and "entitled." It has to be earned by each -- and there is no other way, although an unscrupulous few, will promise it can be sold to them.
But life is not like that -- only available to the most unwary and gullible -- no matter how much money they have, or can get. The real value is in the skills learned and mastered -- and not just mimicked, as though one knew -- or claimed to know all there is to know.
Invariably, such masters of the universe, will wake to the realization that what they knew, was not all there was to know, and experience critical failures when the need to know is paramount. That is glaringly obvious in what we regard as the natural "aging" process -- when everything one thought they knew that worked, suddenly abandons them. Usually, their response is "too little, too late," and they don't want to have to learn anything new all over again. They just want to go to their graves knowing everything they already know -- but increasingly, forget.
One quickly forgets, what is no longer useful -- or does not work, because there is no reinforcement of that behavior. One merely goes through those motions compulsively -- until one even loses that. But learning something new that really works, is revitalizing and renewing -- and recharges one for the next ten years.
And then something else can be discovered -- giving one another new lease on life. That means change -- and not just continuing as the same person one has always been. That is the secret to great vitality -- that one dies to the old, and is reborn in the new. It is also the great spiritual teaching -- and not just carrying the dust of many generations into the next.
Change is the reason for practice and exercise. By it, we hope to get better -- and not just stay the same, or get worse a little slower. Yet that is many people's approach to any practice and exercise -- and not that there can be significant, dramatic and immediate improvement -- as self-evident truth. Instead, it becomes merely a belief in some distant time in the future -- and even into the life thereafter, if all else fails.
For the aging bodybuilders, the lesson unheeded over a lifetime is usually lost by then. That is the grotesque imbalance and priority given to developing the biceps and the "six-pack" abdominals -- to the total neglect of those parts of the human body that becomes glaringly problematical for them as well as for most people with age. That is their feet, knees, hips and back -- which should be given highest priority, and the way to do that is not by variations of the deep knee-bend -- which is painful for most, but the slight knee bend -- in all its variations, as actually the cure -- from those years of abuse. That includes even sitting in a chair -- for prolonged periods of time -- or standing with a bone-on-bone lockout. Either, and both are damaging because it does not engage and lubricate the knee -- preparatory to any movement. In order for that to happen, the knees have to move forward in front of the toes -- which the self- certified exercise "experts" command must never be done -- thereby ensuring that lifelong problem.
That is the proper positioning of the Horse Stance -- from which every effective movement has to be initiated from -- whether one is aware of it, or not. That is the slight knee bend -- pulsed for a count of 50 -- as the key movement that must be done to ensure the highest functioning of the supportive structures, as often as one can think to do it. Then the myriad of other problems don't arise. That is the simplicity of change.