Developing Credibility
There are some people, who think they have to "fake it" -- until they "make it," but all they will be successful at doing, is pretending to be what they aren't -- instead of being authentically who they actually are -- which is the real accomplishment and success, of any person. In that way, they learn what they know, as well as what they don't -- rather than pretending to know what they don't.
And really, that is the source of most of the problems in the world -- of those who don't know, not knowing they don't, and not being able to tell that critical difference -- which is the difference between those who succeed, and those who fail. In order to succeed, one must know what failure is, and distinguish that from success -- or they will not know the difference, and so can never achieve success.
That is rather a simple thing -- knowing that difference. A few though, have been raised with the credo, that the truth of any matter, is simply what they can get others to believe -- and there is no truth beyond that. Obviously, those who operate in that way, do so having been raised and conditioned entirely in a socialized environment rather than a natural one -- meaning that the "right" opinions matter more than their actual consequences.
Things instantly and arbitrarily manifest themselves -- because that is what the political leaders have decreed, and not that there is a process for which they came into being. Food manifests in styrofoam wrappers, and not from the producers who grow and prepare them for marketing through systematic and arduous processes. And so when things don't turn out as they would like them to, the only course is to appeal to those in charge -- rather than providing for oneself. In fact, that is immediately dismissed as unrealistic -- rather than how things actually come about.
Cause and effect is lost -- or never taught in the first place. Of course such subjects are at the mercy of the powers that be -- always beyond themselves. Thus the struggle, is to be one of those powers -- or at least seem to be. That is the necessity to seem to be other than one actually is -- and mastering that, as the primary skill and objective of those living in the freedom to choose their own fates and destinies. In the past, most people never got there -- mainly because all were struggling to be the one at the top in that society -- to tell everyone else what to do, and how to think. They felt that that was their duty and entitlement, that was their destiny -- to rule over all others.
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But with each successive new generation, such obviously heavy-handed bonds have been erased from memory so that the present one is unaware of such conditioning -- that has gone on for time immemorial. Thus the insightful personages of human history and evolution were those who pronounced that to see that conditioning, was the key to mastering reality. Otherwise, one is like the countless many, who can't tell the difference, and don't care to. It is enough for them, just to watch passively while others tell them what to think.
In that world, are many faking their credibility -- simply because they can -- to an unsuspecting and undiscriminating audience. It doesn't matter if they know something -- only that others think they do. Those are their "credentials" -- something quite other than credibility. Credibility is what can be proven in the present -- and not only what they have claimed to have attained in the past -- as though that standing is permanent and irrevocable -- rather than discovered from moment to moment.
Truth is always discovered in the present moment -- and not simply a remembered happenstance long ago -- retold to yet another generation, as the "official" teller of that story. Usually though, they make up and replace it with their own story -- that they alone are the truth -- from here on out. So anything they say, is the truth -- no longer requiring any other authentication or validation -- in actual experience. The truth is what actually works -- and not all the excuses and explanations for why nothing works as they say it should.
Truth is always discovered in the present moment -- and not simply a remembered happenstance long ago -- retold to yet another generation, as the "official" teller of that story. Usually though, they make up and replace it with their own story -- that they alone are the truth -- from here on out. So anything they say, is the truth -- no longer requiring any other authentication or validation -- in actual experience. The truth is what actually works -- and not all the excuses and explanations for why nothing works as they say it should.